Wednesday 18 September 2013

….From self conscious to self confident ..


Losing hair can be difficult at any age.

But for a young man in his late teens/early twenties it can be so much more emotionally and psychologically devastating.

This was certainly the case for carpenter, Declan, who began losing his hair as a 19-year-old while still living in his native Ireland.

Good looking and athletic, the then captain of his local rugby team, was socially confident and had always found it relatively easy to date girls of his choice.

But when his hair began to thin rapidly he became increasingly introverted, stopped socialising and playing sport and constantly ruminated about his perceived ‘sub-standard’ appearance.

Trying to conceal his ‘desperation for a cure’ from those close to him, he attended appointments to obtain medication and undergo a series of laser treatments in ‘secrecy’.

Each Saturday morning he pretended to his parents that he was going to work rather than admit he was having laser treatment for his hair loss.

When he attended weekly laser treatments on Saturday mornings he pretended to his parents that he was working, while at the same time telling his employer he wasn’t available Saturdays because of family commitments.

Determined to find a permanent solution for his hair loss he travelled to England to have treatment at a hair restoration clinic.

He paid ‘heftily’ to have 500 grafts transplanted from the back of his head to a donor site, suffered considerable pain during the procedure as well as scarring afterwards.

Disheartened by the experience he then found a spray on fibre hair solution which gave the illusion of thickened hair, but came with its own set of problems.

“I was afraid to go swimming because I couldn’t get the fibre wet and when my girlfriend stayed over I would sleep on my arm to prevent the ‘hair fibre’ from falling all over the pillow,” Declan said.

“I was never myself. If I got comments about how light my hair looked I would go into a deep emotional decline. You are far more vulnerable when hair loss affects you at a young age.”

Things changed for Declan after accepting an invitation from one of his sisters to move to Australia, he consulted with renowned hair loss specialist Dr Jennifer Martinick.

His sister suggested he use his fresh start to shave his head to liberate himself from concealing his thinning hair.

However, shaving his head would have exposed the ugly scarring that had occurred as a result of the ‘unsuccessful hair transplant procedure’ undertaken in England.

After a consultation with Dr Martinick he learned that along with providing the latest in natural looking hair transplantation she could successfully treat his scarring from past procedures.

A procedure known as a trichophytic closure which is used routinely in her practice is achieving excellent camouflage results in the donor areas of patients.

Declan said the hair restoration surgery and treatment of his former scarring has changed his life.

“In my early twenties hair loss stopped me from doing a lot of things,” Declan said.

“Now I am completely back to my old outgoing self. I am swimming, playing football again, dating and enjoying a full social life.

“I’m sharing my story because I want to help other young men. I’d hate to think of anyone else missing out on the best years of their lives because they feel bad about their hair loss.”

Dr Martinick, the immediate past President of the International Society of Hair Restoration Surgery, (ISHRS) said she hoped young men would share their concerns about hair loss with a medically trained hair loss specialist.

She advised young men with male pattern baldness to seek treatment as early as possible to prevent further hair loss and, in the event that they eventually chose to have a hair transplant, ensure they preserved precious donor follicles

She said she received a lot of requests from young men for hair transplants, but as a general rule she doesn’t perform hair transplants on men under 26.

However, she believed there were circumstances, where a more flexible approach was needed.

She says her professional concerns were that young men could be unrealistic about what could be achieved from a hair transplant and expect to regain the hair line of an eighteen year old.

In many cases, these young men do not comprehend that they only have a limited number of follicles for transplanting to achieve the results they desire.

“But if I am presented with a mature 21 year-old with a realistic perception of what hair transplanting can achieve - and his hair loss is interfering with his quality of life – then I’ll consider undertaking a transplant.

“I have a much more open mind about transplanting young men than I had a couple of years ago as I understand they are only young once.”